Sunday, July 27, 2008
6:00 PM
the best relationships seem to happen when one person can provide something that the other person cannot.
for example. a relationship cannot exist when there are two independent people, or two needy people. two needy people just end up crying half their life, while two independent people are well... too independent to need another person.
so the best relationships work when there's one independent person and one needy person.
but why is it that needy people are attracted to independent people. and why do independent people keep thinking they can fix needy people.
needy people dont need independent people, they just need help.
why get into a relationship if you know it would never work out. are you in it for those few moments of comfort. why put yourself through it all if you know the pain u feel after a breakup feels alot worse than the pain you feel of being alone in the first place.
i saw a stnicks girl crying while on the phone on the mrt on friday. i might be jumping to conclusions but let's assume it was cause of a relationship problem. i doubt she'd be on the phone for the entire duration of the mrt ride if her grandma had just passed away, or if she found out she failed all her exams.
so relationship problem it is.
i found it quite amusing that she kept adjusting her skirt while crying. you're crying for goodness sakes. why do you still bother about how you look.
never did like relationships. too much hassle with too little reward.
i think i'm an independent. i hope to stay that way.